I love being a matchmaker, particularly when it all comes together!
I have a client who joined Mutual Attraction (my matchmaking agency in London) back in December. She’s late 40’s, pretty, got a great career and has a full and happy life with plenty family and friends. Problem? She wasn’t meeting anyone new.
From the offset I loved working with this client, her attitude and positivity fits so well with Mutual Attraction. She completely threw herself into it and embraced the service wholeheartedly.
- She took a chance and said YES to dates
- She made time to meet her dates within the next week
- She was always prompt, polite and courteously to the men she met
- She made an effort when going on each and every date
Do you know what? It worked!
A month ago she had a first date with a great guy
They hit it off, the time flew by and they arranged to see one another again just a few days later. No games. No leaving it 3 days to call and all that crap because, well, they’re not 14 years old!
They liked it each other, they made it clear and they decided together to not see anyone else whilst they continues to go on some dates and see where things headed. Both of them were, and are, realistic that it’s very early days. It might not work out, it could fizzle, a flash in the pan!
Or it could be the person they spend the rest of their life with…now isn’t that an AMAZING thought! Considering the flowers she received after just the first date I have every faith that this gorgeous couple are going to make it work and have a lot of fun on the way!
Why am I sharing this with you? To remind you that this can happen to you! And to stress that attitude counts. It really does. This woman was so lovely, friendly, open and embracing. She didn’t nit pick and make sap judgements. She gave people her time and brought her A game to each and every date. I’ll tell you now she had some good dates and some that were ‘so-so’, they weren’t all perfect.
Next time you have the opportunity to meet someone new or get asked on a date I encourage you to adopt her positive outlook and embrace dating the way she did.
Love is worth it!
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